Thank you...

To all who called. To all who emailed. To the ones who listened to me lament what the future holds for my loved ones. To those whose thoughts and prayers have been constant since it all started...And big thanks to those who stand by my brother and hold him up. To loved ones across the sea who are taking care of my beautiful nieces and their mother...always a sister in my heart. Your thoughts, your prayers, your wishes for good hopes...I thank you. How lucky - to have so many caring, wonderful, thoughtful people in my world. Your outpouring of love never ceases to amaze me.

Hearts are Breaking

Hearts are breaking, and there is a great sadness in my world today. Not because the Cardinals lost the Superbowl (it was a great game, after all, and the Cards showed a lot of character); not because of anything with Groundhog Day (did he see his shadow? Did he not? Do I care?); not because the economy shows signs of worsening. No, these things don't enter my psyche today. Today my sister in law and my nieces boarded a plane. To move to Norway. Divorce is never easy, especially when it involves two contintents. And suddenly, the reality of how our family is forever changed begins to settle in. My brother will survive on letters and emails and occasional pictures and updates, and a promise of reuniting with his daughers sometime soon. I know there is rejoicing on the other side - the prodigal daughter is returning home and now her family gets a turn at being a part of the girls' every day lives. Who can blame them? They've been the ones surviving on letters all these years. Now it's their turn, and what a wonderful opportunity for the girls. But nothing will be the same for those left behind.

For me, the change is more transparent, since I moved away long before I had nieces and a sister in law. So I'm used to the occasional calls now and then, the email exchanges, and hoping to visit once a year. But for the rest of my family, who lived basically around the corner from them, it's a whole different story. And I started feeling the ache in my heart when I spoke to my mom and my sister. An ache so deep and so painful, I'd forgotten how fragile my heart really is. I can be - and usually am - awfully cold and unfeeling. I've not decided if this is because that's just the way engineers are, or if perhaps it's a coping mechanism I've built over the years to shield myself from the things I feared would break me. I don't know. Whatever it may be, though, it isn't there right now. I started having chest pains, thinking of my brother, and thought maybe I'm having a heart problem??? But then I realized, this caving, sinking, crushing feeling is the pain I'm feeling for him. I only wish I could keep it for him, so he wouldn't have to feel it himself.

SUPERBOWL XLIII!

WHAT A DAY! My hubby and my big boy saw some sports history today...LIVE! They were at the stadium and watched the Cards take the NFC championship. What a game it was! I found myself screaming at the TV. I never do that. But knowing two of my boys were there was just too much excitement for me.

Last week when it became evident that the championship game was going to be here, Rich decided to get online and see if he could get tickets. You know, the tickets that sold out in 6 minutes. He came walking into the kitchen with this *look* on his face...he got 'em all right. Did I want to know how much? No. No I didn't. But he told me anyway. YIKES! SELL THEM ON EBAY I cried. But after having slept on it, I thought, what the heck. Did I want to go? No. Take Ryan, I said.

I just got a phone call - that I couldn't hear - because of all the noise in the stadium! Ryan was yelling "they won mama! they won mama!" He sounded elated. No pricetag for that, my friends.

How cool would it be...

I find myself in meetings a lot. It's just a part of what I do. Industry focus groups, information sharing meetings, leadership workshops, board proceedings, classes...

Many times these start out with ice breakers that include a "tell us something most people might not know about you" kind of thing.

How cool would it be to say "I'm a first degree black belt in Tae Kwon Do"? I am hoping someday I can say that...